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Links & Things: Going Country Edition

Gopher Tortoise in Florida

We’re out in the country this week and are loving every second of just being together in the outdoors.  When I was  a child my favorite childhood memory was going to my Aunt’s house.  She lived in an area where everyone had horses and horse barns.  Coming from a neighborhood on quarter acre lots this was a big deal for me as a child. 

I remember marveling at all the space we had to run around and be (loud) kids.  We rode horses, played hide-and-seek in the orange groves, and stayed outside from morning until it was too dark to see.  Watching my children enjoy the freedom of exploration and nature warms my heart and makes me remember the times I was at my Aunt’s house. 

I hope my kids look back on these days with as much fondness.  You can follow our adventures this week on my Instagram feed.

Trophy Mom Diaries

 

Links

This week I gave a tour of our home on Design Mom’s Living with Kids series.  Although I was initially nervous, I really thought it was an honor to be on it because I truly love the series.  Gabrielle goes out of her way to ensure that the series is very diverse. Not only can you see homes in other parts of the United States, but also other parts of the world. I love that!  Our house was not without a tad bit of controversy, as you will see in the comments, but the overall vibe was one of support and appreciation for participating. If you’re a reader from Design Mom, I thank-you for stopping by and welcome you!

So much is being said about the Abercrombie and Fitch CEO’s views and his ‘target market’.  I don’t personally shop there, but my thought is that there are a lot of other clothing stores in the world.   I believe entrepreneurs should be free to market their goods or services to whomever they wish, as long as it’s not against the law.  What do you think?

Encouragement for Mothers on Mother’s Day

True story.

I almost forgot this weekend was Mother’s Day.  

My gift to you this Mother’s Day is encouragement.  Especially if you’re battling infertility.

The Call to Motherhood—even for the childless {My Archived Posts}

Why you’re never failing as a mother {Huffington Post}

Mother’s Day: It’s complicated {My archived posts}

 Happy Mother’s Day!

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Living with Kids: Trophy Mom Diaries Home Tour on Design Mom

I’m breaking from my editorial calendar today because my home is featured on the Living with Kids series on Design Mom!

Beach Entry Pool

Do you like looking at beautiful homes in magazines?

I’ll admit that I’m a sucker for a home decorating magazine in the check-out line at the grocery store.

But you know what I love more? I love seeing how people I know live.

I think a house says a lot about the people that call it their home, whether that home be temporary or permanent, leased or owned.

A home is where you live life, where you dream, where you dust yourself off after a set back, and where some of us are blessed to raise children.

It’s so much more than your paint colors, but the paint colors say something too, don’t they?

I find it all terribly fascinating and I’m always honored when someone invites me as a guest into their home.  Aren’t you?

When we leave, the Road Warrior always asks me if I noticed any messes or things left undone.

I always look shocked and say, “No! I was looking at her kids’ art collection on the wall and I really love that she displays their art.  I think we…” 

Then I stop.

Because I know what he is really trying to say.

No one who comes into our house sees the imperfections or piles either.

Coffee Table Books

Design Mom’s Living with Kids House Tour

Today I am beyond thrilled (and a little nervous) to welcome you into our home as part of Design Mom’s Living with Kids House tour.

The series is the brainchild of Gabrielle Blair who is a designer and a mother of 6!

Gabrielle is exactly as you’d hope she be, she is: gracious, kind, generous, enthusiastic and encouraging.

I must admit that I was terribly nervous and self-conscious about emailing Gabrielle. I must have been feeling quite brave the night I impulsively punched out an email offering our home as a feature,  because it took me a few more weeks (and prodding from friends) to submit photos to her.

I hope you enjoy them for what they are:  A glimpse into our lives and photographs meant for inspiration.

I hope you know that behind the photographs there is a real family, there are projects left undone, hurt feelings, many birthday celebrations and rooms I don’t yet have the heart to show you.

 

If this is your first time visiting please say hi in the comments, Instagram, Facebook or Twitter.  I’d love to hear from you.

 

 

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For my daughter: On the Occasion of her 8th Birthday

Today is my first daughter’s 8th Birthday.

Her birthday request today was that Mommy ‘not work’ and just ‘have fun’ with her today.

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From the moment this child entered my life my world changed.

My heart grew and I continue to stand in amazement of what she has taught me through the gift of being her mother.

 

An Open Letter to my Daughter on the Occasion of her 8th Birthday

Dear Posey,

This morning I got up extra early to do the last of my ‘Mommy Work’ before I devote the rest of my day to you and whatever you want to do.

Truth be told, my entire life is devoted to being your mother (and the mother of your siblings) and I’m sorry that it doesn’t always look that way.

Sometimes I forget that 8 year old girls don’t care if the house is perfectly organized or if dinner is Pinterest worthy.

You look around and you see your homeThe place where your family is. 

I look around and see projects and tasks.

You wait patiently for your mother to just play with you. Or ‘have fun’.

I wait for the list to get done before I allow myself to play…and it never seems to get done.

 

I hope when you’re a mother you’ll do it better than me.

I hope you’ll remember what it feels like to be EIGHT and just want your Mama to have fun.

But I’m not taking any chances on you forgetting.

I’m going to start modeling that for you.

Starting today, and every day you’ll want to be with me.

Happy Birthday, my love.

Mommy

 

 

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Decorating with Trays: {ditto} DIY Challenge

{ditto} DIY: Inspired Design For the Rest of Us

Welcome to our first {ditto} DIY challenge!

Once a month, beginning today, nine very different bloggers are attempting to recreate in our own homes a project or design element inspired by a haute couture design selected by Darlene Weir of Fieldstone Hill Design

If this is your first time stopping by, be sure to read about: The {ditto} DIY Challenge and how you can participate next month!

{ditto} DIY: Inspired Design for the Rest of Us

In addition to Darlene, the participating bloggers include:

Ruth @ Living Well Spending Less
Cindy @ Skip to My Lou
Jen @ Balancing Beauty & Bedlam
Edie @ Life in Grace
Rachel @ Surviving the Stores
Karin @ Trophy Mom Diaries
Lauren @ I am THAT Lady
Kelly @ View Along The Way
Melissa @ The Inspired Room

This was our first inspiration photograph:

ditto DIY

{A chic painted tray and vanity vignette, from the home of nina bergsten, photography by marcus lawett.}

The {ditto} DIY Challenge #1:

Create your own painted tray and vanity vignette.

Tray on Ottoman

Decorating with trays:

There is nothing I love more than seeing an ottoman with a tray.  It softens the room, it’s a little more interesting, and in a pinch it doubles as additional seating!  How could you not love that?

For this month’s challenge I humbly submit the tray on our Living Room Ottoman.   Everything about this project used things that I already had in my house.  Because Ruth didn’t think I could do it.  There, I’ve said it.

Do you collect Coffee Table Books?  I wouldn’t say that I actively collect them, but I have acquired a small collection over the years from our travels and I love to look through them.  My plan is to rotate them on this tray.  Also on the tray is my faux orchid arrangement, as well as a goat & cow bell from our time on Safari with the Masai, in Africa.

Tray on Ottoman

Master Bathroom tray vignette:

What’s this? A SECOND submission?  Overachiever much?

Truthfully, I probably deserve the slacker award for this one because it’s something I’ve already had in my home, but it fits the challenge so I wanted to share it.

Oh Wait, I think that makes me frugal—using something I already have?  What say you, Ruth?

Tray on stool

To create this bathroom vignette, I put a woven tray on a teak stool, added a live orchid plant, a tray of succulents, and a couple of shells.

succulents in orchid pot

Have you tried decorating with trays?  Why not give it a try?

How to  join the {ditto} DIY Challenge

Remember that beginning next month (on Monday, June 3rd) we are inviting you ALL to join the {ditto} DIY challenge!

Go for the GOLD and find out about the June {ditto} DIY Challenge so that you can join us next month.

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Links & Things: Cooking with Kids Edition

 

Cooking with Kids

It’s raining in South Florida—a lot.  Pools are overflowing.  I realize this is South Florida Problems, or as my neighbor calls it, ‘Champagne Problems’.  Normally I like the rain, it makes me want to snuggle up and read a book, or organize something.  But, not this week. I have too much to do.  In case I’m the only homeschool Mother you know, May is our CRAZY month. We go crazy and want to turn the school day into a 12 hour affair to fit in the last of what we had planned before the annual homeschool conventions begin.  So to  pass the time (and get in some Home Ec) I’ve been cooking with my kids. 

 

Online Discoveries:

Closet Visit is an opportunity to look into the closets of some fashionable and diverse women.  What’s not to love about that?

My favorite new Instagram feed is:  UP Close & Stylish.  I don’t care who this anonymous person really is, who she is married to, if she used a professional photographer or whether or not she edits the photos herself on her iPhone 5 (she says she does). I just like looking at the fashion…and pretending I looked like that every day.

 

Have you liked the Trophy Mom Diaries Facebook page yet?

I post daily finds, questions, and inspiration on there. It’s a great way connect with the other members of the Trophy Mom Diaries community.

This week I posted an interesting article about a man who gave up the internet for a yearCould you go a year without the internet?

Do you know what the most overused word in the English language is? What word do you most overuse?

Here is the recipe for the Fish Baked in Salt (shown above) only we used Branzino and I doubled the salt mixture.

 

Have a great weekend!

 

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